Never give up (unless quitting is the right thing to do.)

I recently mentioned a couple of times (on Social Media) how it took 9 years to publish my book Unmute Your Life — break free from fear & go for what you REALLY want, and how you can realize your dream, too… if only you NEVER give up.

Which is true and solid advice UNLESS…quitting is the right thing to do.

Perfecting the art of quitting is part of realizing your dreams.

Because:

#𝟏: you need to know what to quit doing to achieve your goals (this is as important as doing the right things)

#𝟐: you need to let go / quit everything that’s not a perfect match for you if you want to manifest your TRUE goals and dreams, and most importantly:

#𝟑: you need to quit pursuing dreams and goals you’re no longer in love with.

I see people pursue a dream for many years, without checking if this is 𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 what they TRULY want.

But you change. Your dreams and desires change. What you wanted 10 years ago is not necessarily what you still want today.

Even something you wanted ten days ago might be something you no longer desire now.

DO give up when you’ve outgrown your dream.

DO quit when you no longer want the goal you set earlier this year.

STOP pursuing anything you no longer TRULY desire. QUIT everything that no longer serves the person you are today and what matters to you most right now.

Never giving up is a great thing-unless when it isn’t.

What are you ready to give up on?

Love,

P.S. The book Unmute Your Life — break free from fear & go for what you REALLY want, is a powerful toolkit that helps you uncover your TRUE dreams and make them real!

Whatever you need along the way is covered in this book.

You can read all about & order your copy here.

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Originally published at https://brigittevantuijl.com on July 29, 2020.

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